Don't Judge a Book By Its Cover

Don’t judge a book by its Cover….

 

There’s a deeper meaning to everything around us…..

 

Nothing is as simple as it seems.

 

If we see something and we immediately form a perception about it, then, our Perception has a 50-50 chance of being False!

 

Look at things closely. Understand things as they come. Read between the Lines whenever possible. Step out of your Body and look at things from another person’s view.

 

That’s when you’ll know that things are not what they seem to be.

 

Its said in Marathi,”Jasa Dista tasa nasta, mhanun sara Jag Phasta”. Roughly translated it means, things are not what they look like, because of which the entire world gets fooled.

It’s like if you walk into a room, look around you and do a thorough yet quick scan of everything around before stepping in.

 

Don’t Judge a Book By Its Cover……..

 

 

A Part of Life

At many times in our lives, we cut people out…..

 

By cutting people out, we feel we are getting rid of every memory we have and had of them in our minds……

 

We feel we are getting rid of everything we had to do with the person….

 

But, we are made in such a way, that we never forget anything, so long as, things have been a significant part of our lives….

 

However angry we are at someone, whether they have betrayed us or just been bad to us, we will Cut them out of our Lives after we have given enough number of chances….

 

But, somewhere within ourselves, even if we consciously feel that we don’t care one bit about what happens, we still do care….

 

Some things still matter to us even if we truthfully tell ourselves otherwise….

 

What has to be done, has to be done. If someone has to be cut out of our lives, they will be cut out from our future that lies ahead…..

 

But, they do not Cease to become a Part of our past….

 

Our Past always remains our Past….even if it is long left behind, it still remains there, waiting to be dug up from our Memories….

 

Everything Remains a Part of Our Lives!

 

A Part of Life……

 

 

Diwali - Terrorism to Birds & Animals

Diwali – The Festival of Lights and Sounds... A Celebration!

 

Everyone (well, almost) enjoys all the sights and sounds of Diwali. I enjoy the Sights, the lights…but I detest the Sounds!

Sound? What Sound? It’s a Noise!!!

 

It is a nuisance to Small children who cannot express their tolerance levels. They feel they enjoy it because us adults show them that they should like it.

 

But, what about the Birds & Animals?

They cannot speak or express themselves. All they can do is Hide & Run from all these noises. But where will they go? Humans have no place to live, forget birds and animals.

 

They jump and run everytime a cracker bursts. They run, fly and look for a place to hide. Every cracker burst must be giving them a heart attack. I’m sure the feeling they have is very similar to the feeling we get when we hear a gun-shot or even see a bomb blast somewhere.

 

What is the point of this Festival. Nobody cares about the festivities and what the reason for the celebration is. All everyone cares about is the ‘show-sha’ associated with bursting crackers! “Oh! See, we have sooo many crackers”. “Oh look we have the best ones and the loudest ones!” Damn it!

 

Diwali – Terrorism to Birds & Animals….

 

Find your G-Spot

G-Spot –The spot in the human body that has the potential to give maximum pleasure resulting in an Orgasm.

 

Now, what I am writing has no sexual reference at all…..

 

What I am talking about, is finding your own G-Spot, again, not in a sexual manner.

 

We should find what pleases us the most. We must do that one thing that gives us maximum pleasure. Be it a hobby or a work thing.

 

When something makes you very happy and you know this is what you wanna do, then you’ve found your G-Spot!

 

Find you G-Spot, keep yourself happy and you will also make people around you happy. Your soul will be happy. Your life will be made much easier. Everything around will be much more tolerable and bearable.

 

Find your G-Spot……

 

 

Sex - A Taboo

What is Sex?

 

An act that God meant all Humans and Animals to do, so that they can carry out the ‘manufacturing process’ called reproduction and also in some beings for pleasure.

 

It is a Need….a Physiological Need that Human beings have as much as food, clothing & Shelter….

 

It is something no living being can do without. You need it in some form or the other.

 

Why then, is it a Taboo?

 

Everyone does it, else none of us would have been on this planet as of now. The World would have ended 100 years after it all began.

 

Our parents have done it, theirs have done it and so on…..

 

Why then, is it something so frowned upon? Is it because it is supposed to be a secret? Is it because people aren’t supposed to think you indulge in the Act? Is it because it is considered ‘dirty’? Why?

 

It is the best expression of Love. If done with each other’s consent, it is something that gives satisfaction to both the parties involved, and also helps in relieving stress, increasing and improving blood flow, keeps you healthy and glowing and looking young all the time.

 

Why then, in our Country is it a Taboo?

 

Our country has been the origin of the Kamasutra. Even that is frowned upon. Where along the way in the last few generations did it become a Taboo? The gods and goddesses practiced it a lot. It’s there in the history of kings and queens. Why else did they have multiple Wives?

It’s all so clear. If it was fine and normal 100s of years ago, what happened in the last couple of decades that made it something so bad?

 

Why are we forbidden from making the ultimate Expression that man can make?

 

Of course, it’s bad if it is misused and abused. That’s where exceptions come in. Crime rates and rapes are high because everyone is supposed to keep it under covers and mum about it all the time.

 

Rapes don’t happen abroad as much as they do in the Indian Subcontinent. That is because they are open about it outside and people have enough number of opportunities to release their sexual energy in many ways. Whereas here, it is just not possible. You have to keep thinking, what will my parents think, what will my friends think, what will my neighbours think, etc…..

 

Just doesn’t make any sense.

 

God only know when the change will happen………

 

The change is in our hands..

 

Sex – A Taboo……

 

Cry

I wanna cry....

I wanna cry as much as I can...

The tears just don't flow out.

There isn't a right time or place to cry...

Its never possible to cry...

I have no time left for myself...

No time left for others...

I'm lost...

I wanna cry...

Cry...

Cause I Miss You...

Baby, I Miss You....

I miss you so very much.

I remember all the times we've spent....

I remember all the places we've seen....

I remember all the things we've done....

I remember all the love we've shared....

I remember all the problems we've had....

I remember all the solutions we've come up with...

I remember all the plans we've made...

I remember all the promises we've made....

I remember all the dreams we share....

I remember all the happiness we have being with each other...

I remember all the sadness we feel when we are not around each other....

I remember how peaceful I feel when you are with me....

I remember how everything seems easier just by having you around....

I remember the hard times I give you....

I remember your smile and your laugh....

I remember your tears....

I remember my love for you....

I remember YOU!

Cause I Miss You...

Unfair...

Life is Unfair....

Just when things start going right, something goes wrong again.

Just when things start settling down, something else starts falling apart.

You keep someone happy, and someone else gets unhappy.

You keep everyone happy, you get unhappy.

You make adjustments to suit others, new adjustments are needed.

You behave yourself all these years, and then misbehaviour is constantly pointed out.

You misbehave everytime, then good behaviour is appreciated.

You feel you wanna live, you keep getting reasons to Die.

You feel you wanna Die, you keep finding reasons to Live.

Life is Unfair.

Unfair......

Life Takes Us Places

We see so many things in Life.

So many different Experiences.

One day you stay at a 5-Star Hotel, some days you rent out someone else's room illegally just so that you get a night's sleep.

Some days you travel in a BMW, and some days you travel sitting on the floor of a train outside the Toilet or on the Stairs of a Rickety-old Bus.

Life gives us so very many teachings.

We live Life as it comes. That's the best part of it. Taking things as and how they come. Makes it interesting.

Life takes us to through the posh lifestyles of Dubai, Europe, etc. and through the humble lifestyles of rural India too.

Even if you go very high up the ladder in Life, never ever must you forget the roots of Mankind. Never forget where you or your ancestors come from. Remember the lives everyone lives, and then live the way you want.

Life Takes Us Places.......

Excited

I'm so excited. My engagement is getting close and its happening for real!

Woohooo......

So happy I'm going to get engaged to the woman I love so much.

I'm the luckiest man in the world to get such a lovely woman for a fiancé.

Excited.......

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Lost....

I want to do something. But I don't know what to do.

I don't want to do something. But I don't know what to do.

I know what I should do. But I don't know what to do.

I know what I shouldn't do. But I don't know what to do.

I know what the future may be like if I do what I want to do. But I don't know what to do.

I know where I should be. But I don't know what to do.

If I know what to do, but I don't know what to do then all it means is that I'm LOST.....

Lost.....

I Love You

I Love You.

I Love You more than I can say.....

Everytime I say it, I don't feel like I've done justice....

What I feel for you cannot be expressed in merely those 3 precious words....

That's why I say it again and again, because the only way I can express my love to you when I'm away from you is by telling you how much I love you. And since there's no measure for Love, all I do is say it over and over again to make it sound as close as what I feel for you.

I Love You.....

A Reserved Introvert?

Never thought this time would come.....

Never thought I'd be so low even though I've got nothing to complain.....

Never thought I'd feel alone even when I'm with people I love and people who love me.....

Don't know why I feel upset at the world....

Don't know why I feel upset with everyone.....

Don't know why there's all this sorrow in me....

Feel I'm into depression....or slowly going mad......

Or maybe that I'm just a Reserved Introvert......

A Reserved Introvert.....

Hard Work....

Do we value money?

Do we make good use of it?

Do we blow it up because we work for 9 hrs a day to earn it?

Been working with a solid example past few weeks.
Comes to office at 9 am. Goes home at 6 pm, then cooks food at home and goes for a night duty at 8.30 pm. Finishes that at 8 am, then comes to wash cars and scooters. Goes home at 8.30 am, freshens up and comes to office at 9 am again.

That's a schedule!

If this isn't hard work, what is?

We hardly work.....they work hard.....

Hard Work......

Heart over Mind?

The heart is somewhere...but the mind is somewhere else.

The heart is constantly saying something else. But the mind is saying the opposite.

Its not possible to always listen to the heart, is it?

What's best in the long run? Listening to your heart? Or balancing an equilibrium between what the heart and mind have to say?

What is it?

Why is the mind so lost? Even when it says it knows what its saying? Is it because even the mind is in doubt?
Is it because it knows that the heart is right somewhere?

Is it that the heart's opinion is stronger than that of the mind's?

Is it best in life only to do what the heart says? And ignore what the mind is saying?

Heart over mind???

Life.....As We Know It

Life.....

Is so full of complications.

So full of complexities.

You have to do this to get that.
You've to do that to get this.
And then you've got to do that and that to be able to do this.

Everything has to be done keeping others in mind.

Everything you do has a consequence.

Everything has a past, present and future.

Who says Life is Simple?

There are a dozen thoughts that come to our mind every minute.

Thoughts that confuse us, disorient us, give us clarity, stress us out, give us headaches, make us wanna yell out loud, make us wanna punch and break something, make us feel loving.........

As a child, life was good.
Yes, there were all these things that we had to think of.

There were consequences for everything.

But the responsibilities part wasn't there.

Its a part of growing up. Responsibilities.

You are responsible for everything and for many things.

We are not afraid to take those responsibilities. Its the stress that we are afraid of.

Life has its ups and downs.

Dealing with all these isn't always easy.

Having all these confused thoughts about life is also a part of life.

That's Life....

Life.....As We Know It.......

Waiting for the right moment

Want to burst out.

Want to explode.

Want to just cry my heart out and cry my eyes out till there's nothing left.

Don't know why. Don't know why.

Keep stopping myself because its not the right time everytime I feel like it.

Keep stopping myself thinking this is not the right moment.

Want to say so much but have no words.

Want to shout out loud, but can't.

Have so many thoughts in my head, don't know which ones to listen to.

Want to cry and cry and just cry, but don't want to.

It just hurts to hold on and wait.

But what to do, that's how it is.

Waiting for the right moment.......

A Shell

You are A Shell.

Nobody knows what's inside.

You don't know what's outside.

You open the shell just to look out and then close it again.

You don't open the shell to let others know you and See you.

How will they ever know what you're thinking, if you never let them know?

How will they ever know you?

How?

If you don't tell them, how will they know?

What's the point of keeping Quiet? Say something.

Because some things are best left unsaid.
And if you do say something at a point when you're questioned, nobody will believe you and will think this is all made up.

What's the point then?

You can never say all that you want to.
You just can't.

You will just listen to everything as if its true and let it be.

You want to say so much but you are at a loss of words. Because you are not used to using words to express yourself. All you'll do is cry.

That's the only way you know.

You can't change being who you are now. Its too late.

You're A Shell......

A Shell........

Noise

Here I am...

The wind hitting my face constantly.
Making a noise so loud.

The wind has so many things to say.
So many stories to tell.
Stories of happiness.
Stories of sadness.
Stories.......

But when it comes all together. All at once. Its a noise.

A loud noise that you can understand nothing out of.

Noise.....

Pornography or MCPography!

What is Pornography?
Pornography is such material that we view and get turned on. It is erotic material obviously. Comes in many different types.

What is MCPography?
MCP means Male Chauvinist Pig! A typical male trait that is unbearable even to me as a male. Cant even begin to imagine what a female must be thinking about it then.

Why the confusion between these two?
Because Pornography is so male-dominated!
How do women also look at it?
A porn movie s typically about a guy who gets a whore or a woman who comes along for something else and ends up having sex. the man does all sorts of things to the woman and its the man who has an orgasm at the end all over the woman as if she were a doormat or a dirty rug.

Its a man who is satisfied in the movie. Where is the woman ever satisfied? How is it that women get turned on by seeing a man get excited? And if they do.....then how is it that a man also gets excited?
How can people from 2 different sexes get turned on by looking at the same thing?

There's something wrong there!

Why is it MCPography?
Because the image that is portrayed is just that!
A man will get what he wants! The woman's happiness and pleasure does not matter! I mean seriously, how many movies have we seen where a woman has an orgasm!?

Is her pleasure secondary? Or is she a slave in the movie and that's how women are supposed to be treated?

BLOODY HELL!!!

Pornography is so male-centric and male-dominated! It is made keeping in mind a male's ego. Then how is it that a woman likes it? A woman doesn't like the male ego.

If a man were to behave in real life, just like he behaves in the movie, then a woman would never like that. She would abuse him and curse him and call him a Male Chauvinist Pig!

So the question remains!

Pornography or MCPography.............

Reasons

Life is full of Reasons.

Something happens, what do we look for first?
A Reason....

Everything happens for a Reason.

Someone says something.
Someone is happy.
Someone is sad.
Someone is angry.
Someone says nothing.

There's a reason behind every one of these things.

The Human Mind never keeps quiet.
If someone is being unreasonable, we'll try keeping ourselves quiet. But the Mind will drive us bloody crazy.
It'll keep asking us Thousands of Questions! Why? What? Where? Because of? Who? When? Which? How? But why? And it goes on and goes on and damn it, it goes on!

The people who believe everything doesn't need to have a reason are Plain Liars!

We may not know the reasons for certain things. But that doesn't mean there isn't a reason.

Deep down, everyone has the answer to the questions that bother them.

Its the Uncertainty that kills....
The thought that we just don't know a reason for something kills us.

We try keeping ourselves quiet based on assumptions we arrive at while answering our own questions. But we are merely lying to ourselves. But our mind drives us crazy because it can't lie to us.

The Mind will keep getting Frustrated, Irritated, Angry and will start behaving like a Maniac. Things don't easily affect us anymore. We lose our sensitivity. We start losing faith in people.

Uncertainty is the worst thing that can happen.

We need Reasons for everything.
Reasons are the only way our mind will be at Peace.....

Reasons........

Fascination

I get Fascinated by so many things around me.

Fail to stop being fascinated with technology. However used to it I am, it all feels so new and magical everytime.
It never feels old. Never feel its useless.

Its all so amazing and intriguing. Every single time.

Could be the switch that turns a light on, or that light itself. Electricity, a Car, a Train, the Television, a Camera, Airplanes, Vending Machines, Computers, Mobile Phones, etc....the list is endless.

Fascination.

Enough said about the man-made things.

What's not made by man also never stops being fascinating.

Nature is beautiful.

The Human Body is amazing.

When a small child or anyone smiles, its the best thing the eyes can see. Automatically puts a smile on your face.

When a baby wraps its hand and holds onto your finger tightly, without fail, it warms your heart and gets a big smile and tears into your eyes.

Emotions are one of the most fascinating things.

Everyone has them, but the way everybody expresses them is so different.

The World is full of Happiness.

Full of things that are Fascinating.

We should never stop being fascinated. Else Life will get boring and monotonous.

Never stop Loving and Smiling.

Always enjoy the smallest and simplest things in Life. They're the Best.

Fascination.....

You Know You're In Love When....

You are with her.
She is with you.

You are thinking of her and have a smile on your face.

You are thinking of her and the pace of your heartbeat increases.

You are around her and feel proud of each other for being together.

You feel you couldn't have been with anyone better in life.

You feel nobody else will understand you like her.

You feel nobody else can keep you happier for the rest of your life.

You feel you can share anything and everything without hesitating.

You feel hurt when she's angry or upset with you.

You feel angry at yourself when she's angry at you.

You feel sad when she's sad.

You feel happier than what she actually is, when she is happy.

You are beaming with a wide smile when she has a hint of a smile on her face.

You find her beautiful even if she's covered in dirt all over.

You find her beautiful even when she's just woken up.

You can't help but keep staring at her, when she's sleeping peacefully.

You feel warm.

You feel secure being with her.

You feel nothing wrong can ever happen with you as long as you are with her.

You feel you own the World.

You feel you can do anything.

You feel nothing is impossible.

You feel your dreams are much easier to achieve knowing she's there by your side.

You feel Confident doing anything knowing she's your backbone.

You know you've never felt anything as amazing as this before.

Your Heart cries a loud yet silent cry when you see her go away.

You feel like just crying and doing nothing when she's not around.

You feel your world will come to an End if she ever leaves you.

The One wish you have in Life is that she never leaves you and goes. Ever.

You have no more Words left to describe how you feel.

You Know You're In Love When.......

Attachment and Separation

Man is a Social Animal.

We are attached to someone or the other at every point in our Life. We've to deal with Separation also as a consequence of the Attachment.

Love makes us realize that sense of Attachment. Loss of a loved one given rise to the feeling of Separation.

Meet your Lover and you begin to feel the strong Attachment. But the moment the time to bid Farewell comes, Separation hits.

I love the Attachment. Its the Separation I Hate.

Who likes Separation? What if Man wasn't a Social Animal? What if Man didn't get attached to anybody?

Well then. Life would be plain and downright Boring!

What would we do if we didn't have someone else to Live for? What Purpose would we serve? Who would share our sense of satisfaction at the End of a Hard Day's Work?

This Blog, amongst others, is dedicated to you my Love.
You give me a Purpose to Push hard everyday.
You let me share with you that Sense of Satisfaction after a hard day's work.
You give me a Reason to Live each day to the fullest.

Attachment and Separation are a part of life.
Without them, there would be no Life.

Attachment and Separation.

The Wind in my Hair

There's a strong wind blowing.

There's a Strong Wind Blowing through my Hair.
Brings along with it hundreds of thoughts that pass by as fast as the Wind.

The Wind carries hundreds of moments with it.
The Wind carries hundreds of memories with it.

Makes you realize that Life can pass by just as Fast as the Wind, before you even realize it.

The Wind in My Hair.

You can't hold onto it. It just passes by.

The Wind in my Hair.

We Are Who We Are

When someone is a Thief, he's always looked at as a Thief. Even if he's changed.

When someone is a Murderer, he's always looked at as a Murderer. Even if he's changed and committed his crime under un-thought of circumstances.

When someone is an Addict, he's always looked at as an Addict. Even if he's gone through a lot of effort in changing.

We all are solely responsible for what we do. We and only we are.

But is there no forgiveness in this World? Why is it that someone who's been a thief has to always be doubted forever, just cause he did something?

Is it never possible for someone to Change?

Everybody is capable of Change and is capable of accepting Change.

But there's something within us that controls that capability. We are solely responsible for what we feel and what we think.

Preachers can Preach. But it is upto us to believe what we want. Nobody, nobody can force us to believe something.

Who we are and what we are is a reflection of the times we've gone through in Life. It is upto us to decide which direction we have to go in.

If we've had bad times, its upto us to decide whether to go to the negative side or to look at the positive side.

We see ourselves and evaluate ourselves over and over again. We are never too sure about what we feel is right or wrong.
We may come to conclusions at times but we'll never be very sure about our individual selves, because we tend to look at ourselves through other's eyes as well.

We need to see our own Reflection to decide who and what we are. We will need to see deep within our Souls in order to be able to evaluate ourselves and others.

Unfortunately, a Title or a Tag remains with a person till the time he Dies. That's the Way Life is.

We Are Who We Are.

The Passing Time

Sitting here on a Train watching the world swiftly pass by.

The Farms, Animals, Trees, Birds, People all being left behind as we go ahead.

Makes me want to hold onto things.
The Fear of losing things is always there. Seeing the world pass by makes it stronger.

You never know what turn you'll take and what you'll miss out on.

The World is a large place. Yet the factors holding everyone on Earth are small. Being nice, sweet, understanding, caring, loving and trustworthy are the things that matter when you want to hold onto someone or something.

We have no time to stand and stare.
We have no time for anger and hatred.

We have time to listen.
We have time to learn.
We have time to be happy.
We have time to smile.
We have time to Love.

Time passes by faster than we realize.
Time never stands still.
Time waits for no one.

You have the time.
Your time is in your hands.
Your Life is in your hands.

Make the most of what you have.
Live for others and you'll be able to live for yourself.
Live for Yourself and Time will leave you behind.

Live everyday as if it were your Last.

Leave no chance behind. Leave Time behind and go ahead.

The Passing Time.....

Memories of a Lifetime

If you know what Nostalgia is, then you'll understand being Nostalgic for almost an entire week.

I'm in Bangalore. The City of my childhood. The City I grew up till the age of 12. Though most of my growing years were spent out of Bangalore, I have maximum memories of this City.

Memories that will last me for a Lifetime.

Childhood may not have been a dreamy time. But it was a very happy time.
My parents who did all they could to show me happiness and only happiness.
They've shown me so much in my 12 years at Bangalore, I remember almost every single thing.

My time here has been unforgettable.
Every road we pass by has way too many memories attached to it.

Memories of a Lifetime.

We, people, tend to let go of our memories. We forget everything about our Past and move into the Future.

Never forget your past. Yes, you must move on, but never forget, you are who you are because of your past as well. Let go of the bad things, don't forget them, cause they will be a constant reminder for you. Memories make you happy and show you the path to be happy.

Yes, move on from the past. Don't hold onto it. That'll be trouble. But move on and let go of what needed to go.

Learn and move on

Here I am getting all Nostalgic. Holding onto things I want to hold on to.

Life is Beautiful.

Memories of a Lifetime!

I Love to Love

Love is a Feeling.
Love is a State of Mind.

Love is that Bitter Sweet Tangy Feeling you get when you feel what you feel.

Love is Happiness.
Love is Sadness.
Love is Ecstasy.
Love is a High.
Love is Fantasy.

Love is like being at an Amusement Park.
Love is like the Monsoon.
Love is like Winter.
Love is like Summer.

Love is like the Fragrance of a Flower.
Love is like the Sweetness of Sugar.
Love is like the Bitterness of Walnuts.

Love is a Mixed Feeling.
Love doesn't let you know what you're thinking.
Love bring out the worst in you.
Love brings out the Best in You.

Love changes me.
Love changes you.
Love changes Everything.

Love is something you have to give.
Love is something you receive.
Love is something you crave to share.

Love is good for the body.
Love is good for the mind.
Love is good for the Soul.

Love is for Everyone.

I Love to Love.

Flying like a Bird in the Sky

I've been on Flights before and was on a flight just now.

Sounds cliche, but I feel like a Bird in the Sky!

Took off in the dark and saw the city pass by swiftly below me. All the lights glimmering and shimmering like a City of Gold and Diamonds....
A City that we keep cursing is so dirty and badly maintained, has the capability of looking beautiful and well organized from above!

Is it perception? Or is it that we fail to see the Beauty that is constantly around us? Are we too busy with our lives that we don't have the time to see and appreciate things that have been a part of us and a part of our lives?
Do we appreciate the surroundings only when we look at it from a Bird's Eye View? (Quite like myself unfortunately).

Makes me reflect on the Evolved Lives of the Modern Human Being! We have Lost ourselves within our own self-created Worlds and have completely forgotten about the World that made us a Part of It. It never forgot us, yet we forget it.
Man is Selfish! In my opinion, the most selfish of all Creatures on Earth. Don't think I'm wrong....

So, I have these thoughts in my Head at a height of about 30000 feet. Supposed to be a little Light headed at this point.

But, I am Flying like a Bird in the Sky!

The Vase

There was once a Vase. A beautiful, subtle, delicate Vase.

The Vase always had some flowers in it. Fresh, Fragrant & Colorful Flowers....

The Vase used to see a lot of things around. Dogs playing, Cats running around, People, children, adults, happiness, sadness, excitement, etc.....

One fateful day, when the Vase was all nice and clean with beautiful flowers in it, it fell down from where it was. Broke into Pieces. Shattered!

It wasn't so badly broken that it couldn't be repaired. It got repaired eventually. There were a lot of cracks, but it was all pasted together. It was strong enough.

Then Life began as usual. Like it was before.

Then one day, the Vase was knocked down again. All the pieces came apart. Each of the pieces broke into two separate pieces.
Was very difficult to put it back together.
But an Angel came along and patiently stuck it back together piece by piece. A Fairy!

Life was even more beautiful thanks to the Added Life that was given.

The Vase was too weak even though it was pasted well. The slightest Friction and the Vase was ready to Crumble. The Vase was now too sensitive. Unfortunate!

Sensitivity can Break. And it can Break Bad!
The Vase Crumbled one Day! Beyond Shattered! It couldn't take even the wind anymore. The Wind hurt it. The Words hurt it. The Friction was too much! And it Fell again....for the last time....

The Vase had now Crumbled!

I don't ever hope to be that Vase!
Though I can relate to it....

The Vase....

Trust...

Trust is something that's very difficult to get.

Its like looking for Diamonds in a river.
Its hard to find and keep. When you do get one, its hard for you to hold on to it and eventually somewhere along the way, you lose it.

And then again, finding another one is even harder.

Don't know how much sense these words are making....made sense in my head, doesn't really sound like sense when I read it.....

But hopefully point is conveyed....atleast to me.....

Peace Out!!!

Trust....

Are You Really Working Out When You Are?

Don't really know why you feel good after a Work Out.

What is a Work Out? Is it only Exercise?
I don't think so. I feel there's a lot more to it.

It helps you de-stress. Ironic!
It helps you divert your mind.
It helps you focus unwanted energy on something beneficial.
It helps you transform Emotions into Physical expressions in a non-violent manner.
It helps you let go of all the anger, frustration you have inside.

End Result - you are rid of all the toxins and all the negativity within.
No Wonder you feel refreshed at the end of a Work Out however tiring it may have been.

I'm Loving It.....

Your Life - Your Rules!

Yeah Right!
Whoever said that or made that up was surely in fairyland.

You never live Life by your Rules. Its always someone else.

All the time, you've to live your life keeping in mind what someone else expects from you. Always put everyone else and everything else first. Its correct, no doubt about that. We should always be selfless.

But, why call it My Life then? Its a Life given to me by the World. Everyone has a stake in your life, like a Public Ltd Company. Everyone gets a share!

Your Life is not Your Life. It is everybody else's life. Your Life is someone else's life.
And someone else's life is your life.

Makes sense? Didn't think so.....

Your Life - Your Rules....

My Ambition, My Goal...My Dream!

The Ultimate Symbol of having Made It in Life.
The Ultimate Symbol of Success and Prosperity.
The Ultimate Symbol of Perfection, Precision and Power.
The Rolls-Royce Phantom!
I Live to be able to achieve you one day!

Stars, Planets and the Moon!

Just doesn't make sense to me.....
I know its a science and needs a lot of studying to be able to understand it!
But, how can Stars, Planets and the Moon decide or tell you how your Life is going to be?

Its your life - Your Life.
How can an object in the universe say how it is gonna shape up?

How are decisions based on the positions of these Objects in the Solar System or Universe?

You are what You Are.
You will be what You want Yourself to be.
You are Your Decision Maker.
And You are solely to be blamed for any 'downs' in your Life!

Not Stars, Planets and the Moon!

What is the Point?

So, you've lived a wonderful happy life....
You've been successful at work, earned lots of Money, bought all the things that made you happy...bought things for everyone.....
You were nice to some people, mean to some people, rude to some people and just didn't care about many other people.....
You did what you felt right all the time....with total disregard for everything else around you....
You Died one day!
Who was there at your funeral? Family? Friends? Colleagues?
NOBODY!
Why? Because you never cared for what they wanted. You always did what you wanted and did what made you feel happy....
Of course they are sad you've gone. Sad because they are humans.....
But, they are glad you've gone too......for many reasons.....
So, What is the Point?
Is the Point of Life to be happy?
No! The Point of Life is to be able to Live for Others and in the process, be Happy.
What kind of a Human Being you have been is very well understood by the number of people who visit you when you are unwell or even worse, when you are Dead!
Live Life King Size - agreed....
But, Live Life King Size by having a Heart of a King as well, so that whether you are a King monetarily or not, you will be a King in everyone Else's mind and Heart!
That is the Point of Life!

Life - Beginning to End!

What is Life?
A Human Being comes into the world, does some things and eventually leaves the World...
He comes as Nothing - his identity is that he is someone's child. He is Naked in every respect.
He lives his life the way he wants and the way other people want him to Live....
He works, plays and has fun along the way....
He accumulates lot of knowledge, wealth & prosperity, he makes a family of his own, makes them go through the same process.........
He makes Friends all the time......
He gets unwell and slowly but surely starts the Painful process of saying Farewell.to Everything and Everyone....
He Leaves the World. This time he is Naked again.....

Is there a Real Celebrity?

So, Oprah was in Mumbai yesterday.....
All the celebrities wanted to get pictures with her. Socialites and bollywood celebrities attended a party thrown for Oprah!
We have such high regards for our celebrities that we never expect them to be BIG Fans of someone else that they will behave like us normal humans where they want to shake hands with the person, have a picture clicked while standing next to the person, etc..
Makes me wonder, is there any celebrity in the world, who does not have a person bigger than him/her? Is there anyone who does not start jumping at the thought of seeing or meeting another celeb?
I don't think there is anyone like that....not anyone I can think of atleast.
Everyone looks up to someone and wants to be like someone else - Celebrity or No-Celebrity.
We are all humans and have our own similar feelings with respect to everything around us.
So, there is No 'Real Celebrity' or there is no Ultimate Celebrity. No Big & No Small. Every single person in the world is a fan of some other person and chooses to follow someone else.
If Dalai Lama is your Guru, then I'm sure Dalai Lama has someone else as a Guru. He may not feel he deserves to be a Guru because He would always feel he isn't as good as His own Guru.
We are never as good as we want to be......

My First Post...

Hey....
I welcome myself to my own blog!
I hope manage to keep this up-to date and do not give into laziness...
Hopefully there will be much more to come....